What do women really want in a relationship

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Besides the meaning of life and the ingredients of hot dogs, many a man has questioned what women really want from men. We're not playing coy here; we know we're complex creatures. And true, we operate on a different wavelength than men, especially when it comes to relationships.

But while yes, women are different from men in some ways, we aren't exactly the great mystery that men often make us out to be. So, what do women really want in a relationship? We polled a group of women we know and compiled their answers in the list below in order to help you guys out. While many women would love to receive gifts of luxury goods from men, when you break it down, those things are just physical representations of some of the points on this list — we promise.

Show us through your actions that you respect our opinions, careers, interests, friends, bodies, and minds. You don't have to agree with all that we say or do, but try to honor our opinions as valuable contributions. Follow the golden rule and treat us as you would like to be treated: Be honest, fair, kind, and considerate. Yes, we love sex. But remember that there are four bases to cover in the bedroom, not just one.

Try stopping at each base instead of being so focused on the home run — believe us, we'll thank you for it! Likewise, remember small physical touches like massages. One can never, ever, have too many shoulder rubs. And scratching our he is pretty great, too. Is it another night on the couch with take-out and TiVo? Just because we're staying in doesn't mean the evening can't be romantic. Light a few candles and see where the night le. Treat us like your girlfriend, even after we become your wife. It's one of the many simple things women want in a relationship. Date nights, making out in the car, kissing like when we first started dating — all of the things that made us fall in love with you don't have to stop just because now there are bills to pay, a house to be cleaned, and kids that need to get bathed.

Bring home flowers for no reason. We understand relationships can't be all wine and roses; simply making the time to be with us and treating us like your top priority says "love" more than all the fancy gifts and lovely letters ever could. The realities of a 21st Century relationship are that both partners probably work.

If you happen to get home before we do, why not take vacuum the living room or throw in a load of laundry? If you take the garbage out without being asked, chances are you'll be getting a big ol' smooch when you come back. But greeting us at the door after a long day with fish sticks or whatever you can pull together makes us swoon because it shows that you've been thinking about us and our hectic day.

Women are vocal creatures. We know you love us, but it's nice to hear you say it, too. We can also be insecure. We wish we weren't, but the reality is that we often notice our wobbly thighs and forget about our gorgeous eyes. So let us know when you think we're hot. Tell us we're beautiful. It helps us feel good. Plus, when we feel sexy we're more likely to act sexy. Words of appreciation aren't half-bad either. Tell us you love the lasagna we made. Thank us for driving the kids to school. Notice that we cleaned the bathtub.

It doesn't have to be over the top, just let us know that you see the effort we put in, and you're grateful. This doesn't mean be boring and predictable. It means that we know you will usually, no one is perfect give us the love and support we need. Knowing that you're coming at this with the same desires and energy as we are, goes a long way to making us feel secure.

Of the mental kind, not the "I'm getting married in the morning" kind. You don't have to like everything we like we might be a little concerned if you do , but showing interest in our passions, be it career-related, a sport or a hobby, go a long way.

Listen when we talk to you. We're not speaking just so we can hear our own voice; we want to connect with you and this is one valuable way we do this. This also means paying attention to the little things. Whether it's the name of our best friend's husband or the fact that we hate Nicolas Cage movies, it's the little things you remember about us that's so endearing. These two tend to go hand in hand. This doesn't mean that you have to crack jokes or entertain us, but just being able to laugh at yourself is enough.

Guys who take themselves too seriously bring everyone down. Not the kind that makes a relationship constant work, but the good kind that surprises and motivates us to do, be or achieve what we desire. Studies show that partners who prod each other to meet goals — in other words, don't support lazy or bad habits — are ultimately happier than those who don't hold each other able. YourTango is the leading online magazine dedicated to love and relationships. We know that by helping women love better and connect more meaningfully, they feel happier and a greater sense of belonging.

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What do women really want in a relationship

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Listen Up, Guys! Here's What Women Really Want In A Relationship