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A lot of us out there looking for love are doing it for the wrong reasons. Building a relationship on a foundation of personal issues is a massive mistake. Love can wait, focus on yourself and be confident in who you are before you dive back into the dating pool. Because coming out of a relationship like that will leave you more broken then before, and it will still fall on you to pick up the pieces. Again, over stressed, yet time and time again I see people struggling with their self-loathing other. No one wants to here how unattractive you think you are or how much you wish you were someone else.
No one in the world is perfect, but love revolves around the idea that the acceptance of these imperfects is crucial to all strong relationships. I know it may sound horrible to say, but you need to have that level of physical attraction to your partner. A relationship needs mental and emotional connections, but there still needs to be a health level of physical desire. There is no such thing as love at first sight. Unless your ificant other is psychic, they were just lusting hardcore. It takes time to love someone, and that off the bat sexual passion is not it.
That being said those steamy first dates can be the start to great relationships , but remember that there is no rush to drop that all mighty L-bomb. And dropping it to early can ruin a good thing. Again, back to the sappy truth. No one will ever be your first true love. It sounds lame, but that first realization that you care about someone more than you care about your self is pretty huge. I mean, teenagers are selfish assholes, and the fact that you managed to do something like that is pretty big.
The key is to avoid bitterness. Maybe it ended poorly but you never want that to run it for you. You have to forgive before you can move on because the first love shapes the ones to come. Keep that in mind. We all have to admit that sometimes letting go of someone makes you want that person more than you ever have.
Sometimes though, it goes beyond that, to the point where you genuinely believe that you have made a mistake and you desperately need that person back. The first thing you can do is fight. Fight for what you want back, be brave enough to admit your mistakes, and hope that things are meant to work out in your favor.
Relationships are not all about you and sometimes people are happier without you. The last and the most emotionally intensive is the waiting game. Sometime the best thing that can happen to two people is space to figure out their individual problems before coming back together. And, in the worst cases, it leaves one person emotionally traumatized. But for those who are willing to try, sometimes it really does pay off. These are all important things to keep in mind but even I find myself straying from what I think is best for me. Nonetheless, those ten things to consider may help to add a little bit of rational to the most irrational actions of your life.
These words are for us all. Beyond Worthy , by Jacqueline Whitney. You may unsubscribe at any time. Here is what I consider 10 of the most important things to keep in mind while playing the relationship game. I was a fool yesterday but not this morning. Then tomorrow we find out that, yes, we were a fool today too. More From Thought Catalog. The Early Years of Motherhood. Get our newsletter every Friday! You're in! See you Friday. Follow Thought Catalog.What comes with love
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