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With work, working out, approaching, and hanging out with friends, there was a lot going on. But now with everything shutting down due to Corona, I have a bit more time to write. He is a model, and we were catching up about our lives, sharing stories that had happened to both of us. He told me about getting on Tinder as he had moved to a new city, and I was naturally curious so I asked him to share his experience. In many ways, I expected what I was about to hear, but it was also eye opening.
I thought it was amusing that he was almost as amazed at my daygame stories as I was with some of his Tinder stories, but we will get to that soon. I have also started using Tinder over the last week due to almost everything shutting down around here, so I will share some of my experience as well towards the end of the article. To give you some context, my friend had done some modeling for a couple of years in both Europe and the US. He recently moved to a new city for work after getting out of a long-term relationship, so he had gone on Tinder and was on there for a few months. He told me he got over matches in the first day he was on there, and often had girls messaging him first.
I was wondering how some of those girls compared to the average girl I had daygamed, so I asked to take a look at some of his messages with his matches. It was quite interesting: there were very cute girls messaging him first, and he barely had to do much in order to get them to meet up with him. His game is basically a good looking guy game: he knows women want him, and he uses that to his advantage.
Nothing fancy. Even though he was getting so many matches and with some really cute girls, he told me that some girls would still flake when it was time to meet up. I shared that with him to get his thoughts: how online dating is conceived as not having top quality girls. Most of them are in LTRs and when they get on there, they are just overwhelmed with the attention. He told me of one of model friends who shared that she had s of matches in just a day or two, and had to deactivate her .
I asked if she had hooked up with anyone from there, and while he said he was uncertain, she did tell him she had a couple of dates. In fact, even if you are one of the top guys on Tinder, you might not get shown to them unless you pay. As a model, of course all his pictures were taken professionally, and it made a huge difference: whenever I had used Tinder, I have always used pictures taken with my phone. Even though most phones have good cameras nowadays, professional model photos will always blow those out of the water.
It seems like that was good enough for him. I did ask him if he felt like matches slowed down after a few days, and he did mention that was his experience as well: it was noticeable, but he was still getting enough matches with high quality girls. I also saw some examples of pretty bad game: he was making small talk with girls at times, but the girls were hooking and asking him questions, at times even hinting at meeting up. I knew he had always met his girls through modeling or social circle so I asked him how it felt to be online: he told me it felt unnatural and weird, like the girls only wanted him for his good looks and sometimes he would go on a date with a girl and end up being disappointed at how shallow she was and how little value she had to offer.
He told me he hoped to find a girl he was interested in sooner, and that all of the girls hitting him up on Tinder was actually kind of tiring for him. I had just had my first instadate the week before we went for drinks to catch up I still need to write a blog post about that story, coming soon! I smiled and told him I wish I could have his success on Tinder. He told me he wishes he could go up to girls randomly and get them on dates right away. I told him for someone like him, that should be fairly easy to do. Since this was a couple of months ago, I am sure I have forgotten a couple of things that I noticed at the time, but the above is what I remember about going through his Tinder.
As I mentioned in the beginning, I got back online reluctantly due to the recent pandemic and everything shutting down. I am nowhere near as good-looking as my model friend, and my pictures are all taken with my phone. However, I decided to post a couple of body pics on Tinder to see what would happen. While I am not getting too many matches, almost all of the girls I match with respond to my first message, and I have been experimenting with being sexual right off the bat. All the girls so far that seemed interested would flake when it came time to meet up: I am not sure if this is due to Corona, or if it would happen otherwise as well.
Maybe a little bit of both. I also noticed that I still hate online dating: too much power is in the hands of the girls. I like being the hunter: seeing a girl I like and going up to her, being able to use body language, eye contact, and vocal tone to seduce her. Getting real-time feedback on my skills rather than hiding behind a screen.
Eye-opening post. I think this shows how daygame gives you a massive advantage over the populace, because it instantly puts you at the front of the line rather than competing with other guys. Though, now may be the time to invest a bit more in Tinder game. Might try to get some more professional photos soon! Like Like. You are commenting using your WordPress. You are commenting using your Google . You are commenting using your Twitter . You are commenting using your Facebook . Notify me of new comments via . Notify me of new posts via .
Tinder as a Male Model To give you some context, my friend had done some modeling for a couple of years in both Europe and the US. Tinder in Detail I shared that with him to get his thoughts: how online dating is conceived as not having top quality girls. What I noticed about his profile As a model, of course all his pictures were taken professionally, and it made a huge difference: whenever I had used Tinder, I have always used pictures taken with my phone. My Recent Experience on Tinder As I mentioned in the beginning, I got back online reluctantly due to the recent pandemic and everything shutting down.
However, I have photos in exotic places which were taken with my phone that girls love, and comment on all the time. If you are not super good-looking, then being adventurous and well-traveled in your pics is also a chick magnet. Online is for practicing your text game and fast pulls. You are a commodity The light at the end of the tunnel: doing online dating now makes me miss daygame that much more.
I still go out a couple times a week and see if there is any sets at the grocery store while I shop during the pandemic, but there have been zero cute girls last week. I am excited to get back into talking to girls in person and starting to create a real connection with real women, rather than hide behind a screen with pictures and a bio. Use online dating to amuse yourself: try new lines, funny and sexual openers, etc.
Daygame and nightgame both give you that, and will get you much more comfortable with fast escalation than doing it thru your phone. So my verdict on online dating is: if you have professional pictures and are getting lots of matches and can get a few dates a week, keep doing it. If you are doing it because there are no other options right now, then do it and see what you get.
However, I do believe that as soon as the pandemic is over, most men will learn more and become better by doing daygame or nightgame. Especially in the USA! Like this: Like Loading Post post: Fixed vs. Leave a Reply Cancel reply comment here Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in:. required Address never made public. Name required.Online dating vs daygame
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