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The most common ideas for a first date are also some of the worst. To see what makes this combination so disastrous, and learn what you should do instead, read on. Dinner and a movie is a big time commitment. You are essentially asking her to block off 3- 4 hours to spend with you. And the last thing you want is her looking at her watch waiting for the date to end.
So rather than scheduling a date that takes all night a good idea for a first date is to plan to meet up for just minutes. That way neither of you will feel pressured to fill a large gap of time with constant stimulation. And if you really hit it off you can always offer to extend the date and spend more time together. Especially if you are dating around and possibly going on multiple first dates a week. Go for a hike, a picnic, or maybe invite her over and cook dinner together. In that environment you are stuck trying to force conversation and create chemistry out of thin air.
So there is always that chance you will just wind up staring uncomfortably at one another across the table for a good chunk of time. Instead of just taking the woman out to dinner take her on an activity date. Ease the pressure of having to maintain constant stimulating conversation by doing something fun. That way you can shift your focus to an outside activity and let conversation arise more naturally. Some examples of good activity dates can include taking the girl mini golfing, or checking out an improv comedy show. The whole idea of a first date is to get to know one another better.
How on earth will you be able to determine if there is chemistry and if the two of you are a good fit if you are not interacting and both just staring at a screen? Instead, ask questions that have a stronger emotional component so you can really get a feel for who this woman is and not just what she does. For example, you may want to find out what kinds of activities she does just for fun , what it is about her job she loves , or what she would do with her time if she never had to worry about money.
For one, the entire quality of your date depends on the quality of the movie. If the movie sucks, the date will probably suck, too. Rest my hand on her leg? Hold her hand? It will make her feel more anxious and neither one of you will enjoy the date. You can mix touch in seamlessly with your conversation, touching her briefly on the arm, shoulder, and back as you talk.
This will come in handy later on because by getting comfortable with touch in the beginning, it will be easier and feel more natural to take things to the next level when and if the time comes. For more ideas for a first date, . Brian M - author of posts on The Art of Charm.
Once he realized attraction was something he could learn, Brian spent way too much of his free time studying and practicing everything he could find on the subject. Excited by the progress he's made in his own life since the program, he decided to start writing for AoC to help other guys do the same.
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