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Whenever I go out with any girl, and they tell me anything to do with their past, present, future, whatever, I find I don't really mind that much; hell, if she flashed a car going past on the street I just wouldn't mind. Now, is this a turn off? I think it doesn't matter as long as shes nice and kind at the time. Nope, I much prefer laid back people in general, not just as partners. Good to hear, was semi-afraid that it would come across as me not giving a shit.
I don't understand how this could even be considered a turn-off. What do you mean by laid-back? Your example of boob flashing makes me think more of the term "sexually accepting" which my partner better damn well be, because I am weird. I think of laid back as not easily excitable, mellow. Almost to the point of boring, though not quite. Maybe not a turn off, but it does matter. Some girls will take advantage of it, and go too far, or walk all over you. Like MistyKnits said, there is a difference between being mellow and sexually accepting.
I do have to add, that this post reminded me of Zoolander for some reason. So, I must know, are you also ridiculously good looking? I like spending time with guys I'm comfortable with who don't judge me. It's nice to spend time with people you don't feel the need to walk on eggshells around. I think that's great. I don't even see how people wouldn't like that about you. I'm seeing a guy currently who is ridiculously easy going. Like you, he doesn't really care about my past, present, or really my future. He likes me currently and that is all that matters to him.
I like the guy, but it makes me feel as if he doesn't care about me when he exhibits his super easy going side. I personally, find it a turn off if a guy doesn't care about what makes me me which is how I take it when a guy does not take any interest in my past, present, future, whatever. I find it incredibly frustrating, even if I know he doesn't mean anything bad by it.
Note: in my case I know this isn't true, and he likes me a lot, but sometimes it feels like it which makes it hard on me. That all being said. I don't see it as a game changer. Being ridiculously easy going may be difficult sometimes, but I'm trying understand it. And I think that as long as she knows you actually do care about her, I don't think she'd find it a game changer either.
Not bad at all. My partner's very easy going and we work excellently together because I'm strung higher than a tightrope. My current SO is like this, and I like it. We're both laid back and comfortable together; we can tell one another about the stupid shit we'd done in the past and not be afraid of how the other would react. It's like, we like each other for who we are right now, and finding something out about how we got to be the person that we are isn't going to change that. Maybe I've been conditioned from dealing with really emotional high strung dudes, but a guy being too nonchalant would read as him not caring about me.
Not really. He's the easiest person in the world to talk to, and makes me laugh all the time. If I were romantically interested, then sure, I'd date him :. Easygoing's always a plus in my book. Men don't like drama queen girls, we don't like drama queen men! However, being a bit TOO easygoing can kind of brink on apathy.
Like if a guy was a bit TOO easygoing, I would think he just didn't care about anything. I think showing a girl that you care once in a while not saying you don't, just showing it so she sees would be good. Found the internet! I am ridiculously easy going guy, is this bad? Posted by 9 years ago. Sort by: top suggested. Continue this thread. I find it a turn off. More posts from the AskWomen community. AskWomen: A subreddit dedicated to asking women questions about their thoughts, lives, and experiences; providing a place where all women can comfortably and candidly share their responses in a non-judgmental space.
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