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Nigerian men treat their wives as second in command, they expect their women to be there for them, answer when they call and they always want to make the final decision…. If he fails to do so, he would be regarded as an irresponsible man in his own community; Nigerian men are expected to be independent by thirty at most. The average Nigerian man believes in a family and the men are expected to take up all the bills at home. Well, I guess that comes with life. But the main question is — Why Nigerian guys in Diaspore go home to marry the accredited innocent and yet un-spoiled girl back in their country instead of the white chick they have been cuddling all year long??
African men believe that independent women and women with western upbringing are already spoiled and finds it very difficult to cope as tradition demands. Like going into the kitchen everyday to prepare his favorite recipe or give it to them the way they want it on bed. African men in general see the women as a helper who they have to love, pamper and dominate and they want her to remain thus, not another bread winner or some sort of competition.
Clubbing, excessive partying, alcohol is considered highly indecent for a Nigerian wife while the white woman considers them a sort of get-away. The simple Nigerian girl is willing to submit and be a real wife to an African man, by so doing she enjoys unhindered love and lavish that she initially never bargained for. A Nigerian women finds savorable love in humility, a quality that Nigerian men are yet to find in women with western upbringing.
And that brings me to yet another tip about Men from Nigerian — They prefer church wedding to court marriage, in fact, only about 2 percent of all couples in Nigeria had court marriage, the rest follow the normal trend, — introduction, traditional and then church wedding no court nothing. Here is where it goes wrong most of the times… most white women never learn how to deal with Nigerian men in relationship, so they keep getting it wrong.
Dating a Nigerian guy, white women often find it difficult to cope, they think we are domineering and demanding. But frankly, you can date and marry a handsome Nigerian guy any day if you are willing and able to be a good wife. Lastly, there is a whole lot to be said about Nigerian men and relationship, Nigerian is the world capital of the church, we all go to church and read bible. There are basic principles enshrined in the bible to govern marriages. We could all look it up sometimes. Majority people at work calls him mean and rude.
He sends me rude texts calls a million times a day, he even went as far as to follow me after work. He drove to my job and waited till I got off and followed me to my destination. So I called the police. We were never a couple. But he calls his self a Christian but was stocking me and harrassing me. Calling me really bad names and than next day will send me sweet texts. I have not blocked him or responded. Because the police station told me I can use all these messages at court.
So my heart was never broke, it was always something I felt off about him. He still had not showed me divorce papers. So with that said I feel he is crazy and I will never date a Nigerian men every again. Sorry about that madam. You should have taking your time to know more about him before offering yourself to him for a date. I want neither,they are complicated! They also prey on American women,like getting money out of us. I went through the same thing! He was so sweet in the beginning and after a year started accusing me of other men and calling me really bad names!
He ran up my airline credit card buying tickets for other women! When I finally caught on to him he became irate and blocked me from all contact! I was left with a 3k Bill! He was evil and had a very dark soul! Never ever Nigerian! Thank you God for moving him out of my life!!! This is such a brutally honest article.
However, I was shocked when I came to visit his family, only to find that the men did absolutely nothing, while the women did everything in the household. Yes, humility is a virtue. I basically came to the conclusion that Nigerian men generally speaking just want something pretty to look at that they can CONTROL which is essentially the same thing as slavery.
You know nothing about salvery white chick so do not insult my ancestors with that ridiculous comparison!! And you do? Black or white or whatever color you are…people seem to think that they know all about slavery. So no need to make rude comments about it. Slavery is in the past. People still get treated different and that is fd up but slavery is in the past.
You know nothing same as the other chick. He cooks, cleans, shares responsibility, dotes on our son, and is gentle and loving. Years ago. And yes as all men of any race try to play the control game. And yes it have become tiresome. Some are use to more. Naive in uneducated woman with no self esteem. This is a real tough decision, and scary cause I been alone many years and I love the way he treats me and talks to me. I just found out that I have a sm percentage of Nigerian blood.
How muchmustI have to be considered nigerian. I could never go out with a white man again. Nigerian or not…you may have different ways about you and different ways you were raised. Different cultures. But ultimately what it boils down to is we all are same blood. Different but same blood. And each person is diffferent. A Nigerian man can be mean and controlling same as a white man. And a Mexican can wanna sleep around with 5 women same as a white man. Everyone has something good and bad about them. Same as the women. Nigerian men want to control everything.
Even my message is awaiting approval to be published. You plan to go through life unchecked? I noticed that often you guys are attracted to the bad guys. You meet a man in a strip club and you expect him to be a saint?
Stuff like that. Take your time to study a man before commuting, spend time courting each other. If you avoid certain principles you get bitten. You met one in around 60,, and making such a generalisation you must be daft and extremely ignorant. Tell me where in the world that is any different generally people are the same grouping often along the lines of socio-economic status. Education and exposure. You need to question why you were attracted to the lowest common denominator I guess it says a lot about you after all birds of the same feather flock together. I just started dating a Nagerian man.
Such a great personality on him. How ever I know nothing about there culture and traditions.Dating nigerian man
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